It Was Just Feedback—So Why Did I Feel Like a Failure? How Childhood Trauma Shapes Our Response to Constructive Criticism

Why does even gentle feedback trigger shame or panic after childhood trauma? Learn how emotional neglect can shape our response to criticism—and how to heal through self-compassion and trauma-informed care.

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Understanding Anger: How to Work With It Instead of Fighting It

Anger is often misunderstood as a sign of weakness or loss of control, but in reality it’s one of the body’s most ancient survival signals. When we explore anger with curiosity instead of shame, we uncover the stories it carries about boundaries, pain, and the need for safety. Understanding anger isn’t about suppressing it—it’s about learning to listen to what it’s trying to protect and finding healthier ways to respond.

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Why Self-Sabotage Is Usually Self-Protection

Explore how self-sabotage is a trauma-informed self-protection response. Learn how therapy can help you understand your nervous system, heal protective patterns, and reclaim personal growth.

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Healing After Narcissistic Abuse: Reclaiming Your Voice, Your Truth, and Your Life

Healing from narcissistic abuse begins with a simple truth: you were never broken, just conditioned to abandon yourself. Whether the abuse came from a parent, partner, or authority figure, the confusion you carry isn't weakness—it's proof of your incredible capacity to survive. This gentle guide offers five trauma-informed steps to reclaim your voice, rebuild trust in your inner wisdom, and remember the wholeness that was always yours. Your healing isn't a question, it’s a right.

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